I think I mentioned in my last post that in NY state you are not required to have a lawyer for a step-parent adoption. I did quite a bit of research and decided that with the possible complexities of our case, we’d be better off with one. So, what happens with the lawyer and what do they need from you? Read on for a better idea.
Finding a lawyer was pretty easy. Most of the websites I went to had a little comment section where you can type in a legal question or something about your case and it emails that to the attorney. I don’t know how many I sent messages to, several, and I ended up talking to 2 of them. One wouldn’t have been able to fit us in for at least 2 months, so we went with the other who got us in within a week. He also took the time before we even met or decided to use his services to find case law similar to our situation and wrote up a draft of a retainer agreement which he sent for us to read over at our leisure and compare and contrast if we wanted to. He answered questions and offered suggestions right over the phone during our first conversation. A good first impression.
So we met with him last week and we signed one document specifying the law offices duties and ours as well, and also signed a retainer agreement. From my research I learned that there are 3 main ways lawyers get paid, ours happens to be paid by the hour and requires a retainer. The retainer is the total amount quoted for how many hours our lawyer estimates he will spend working on our case. We pay him that amount and he draws from that as he works for us. At the end of our case if there is anything left over we get that back. We’re hoping that’s the case. His firm asks for $225 per hour, our retainer was $1600. He is located in a very small town and those prices reflect that from what I’ve seen, apparently depending on where you live you can expect to pay anywhere from a couple hundred dollars an hour up to thousands of dollars an hour. Price shop!
In addition to this initial payment, if our case moves on to litigation we will have to pay another retainer to keep using his services. We are also required to pay any extra costs such as court fees, and service of the papers to the non-custodial parent. If service is attempted and they fail we may have to pay to have an ad run in the paper for so many days, or hire an investigator, whatever it takes.
Now that the money talk is out of the way, what else does the lawyer need from us? We need to fill out paperwork asking basic questions like a description of each person in the case, education, general medical history – including shot records of the child and their apgar score from right after they were born. I don’t know why they need this info, but a phone call to the pediatricians office rendered this info pretty easily through fax. The adoptive parent needs to be finger printed, needs a good health statement or physical from their doctor, and they need to fill out all residences they’ve had for the last 28 years. Yes, that’s right, not 25 years or 30 years, 28 years. Don’t ask me why. Lastly we will need to get a certified copy of the child’s birth certificate and a certified copy of our marriage license (you’re required to have been married for at least a year I think it was, before the adoption can take place). Naturally these copies aren’t free either, where we are they will each cost $30 if we go get them in person.
So those are the basics. Hopefully you find this info helpful!
Until next time, ~ilij